EMDR and Brainspotting Part Two

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This writing expands on an earlier post I wrote about the differences between EMDR and Brainspotting. It’s long enough to be an article so if you want the short version, which includes a comparison chart, see my October blog post.

EMDR and Brainspotting are both powerful healing modalities, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing therapy (EMDR) was discovered in 1987 by Francine Shapiro, PhD, a clinical psychologist. Dr. Shapiro was taking a walk in the park when she noticed that her upsetting thoughts dissipated as she quickly moved her eyes from side to side. She formed the hypothesis that the bilateral movement of her eyes created a relaxed state in her brain which helped her to release the upsetting thoughts.

Dr. Shapiro incorporated eye movements into her clinical work and eventually created her own therapy protocol which included additional sources of bilateral stimulation like tappers and auditory tones. A cognitive component was added to address “negative cognitions”, a term Dr. Shapiro used to describe unproductive thought and feelings toward oneself. She designed a “future template” to allow clients to imagine and integrate a positive outcome to their issue.

During a typical session, clients are asked to bring up a target memory and hold the most disturbing aspects of that memory in their minds while the therapist’s hand moves across their field of vision. The back-and-forth movement of the hand stimulates both sides of the brain (bilateral stimulation). There is a large body of research available on the effectiveness of this modality, and the quality of the experience of bilateral stimulation is described as similar to the mechanisms of REM (Rapid Eye Movement) sleep.

Some clients prefer handheld tappers or bilateral sounds to eye movements. The tappers connect to a control box using six-foot wires and small paddles that people hold in their hands as they vibrate in an alternating fashion, providing gentle tactile stimulation. About every 30 seconds to a minute (the interval varies by client) the therapist asks, “What are you getting?” The client responds briefly by saying something like “An image of myself as a child sitting alone on the front steps” and the therapist says, “Go with that.” Clients may also report emotions, sensations, or thoughts. This continues throughout the session and the combination of the bilateral stimulation and relationship with the therapist create the containment necessary for clients to re-process and integrate disturbing memories from the past in present time.

The result is that the meaning of those memories is transformed, and eventually clients feel empowered and relieved. Clients often notice a changed attitude toward themselves and the disturbing memory. The final phase includes developing an imaginary future template which involves visualizing and tapping in a more positive resolution to the issue. This is a brief description of EMDR.

Brainspotting was discovered by Dr. David Grand in 2003. Dr. Grand is a psychoanalyst who was trained in EMDR by Dr. Shapiro. He had been practicing and teaching EMDR for years and he noticed that many of his clients reported feeling overwhelmed after their sessions. In response to his clients feedback, he developed his own version of EMDR which he called Natural Flow EMDR. His training in Somatic Experiencing with Dr. Peter Levine had a significant impact on his EMDR work.

He used slower eye movements which appeared to be more soothing and when clients got too activated, he asked them to shift their attention to a place in their bodies where they felt more settled and relaxed; he even produced his own bilateral music for people to listen to during their sessions.

Dr Grand’s discovery of Brainspotting occurred during a Natural Flow EMDR session with a young woman who was a professional ice skater. Her childhood trauma was affecting her athletic performance, specifically, her ability to complete a “triple loop”. He noticed that during EMDR when his fingers crossed the midline of his client’s nose, her eyes began to wobble. When he stopped and held his fingers still in front of her eyes, they locked into place, and she was able to process memories that had not surfaced during the prior year of twice weekly EMDR sessions. The next day she called him from the skating rink and reported that she was able to perform the triple loop several times without any problem.

Dr. Grand’s clientele included many therapists who were interested in trying this new technique; these were his first Brainspotting clients, though he hadn’t yet named the modality. He began his sessions in his usual EMDR way, asking clients to bring up a disturbing issue. Then he looked for reflexive responses like eye wobbles, deep inhales/exhales, swallows, and changes in their facial expressions.  When he noticed a response, he kept his hand still and waited. Once they found the eye position, his clients reported deep, profound processing which continued during between sessions.

Brainspotting is based on a fixed eye position, while EMDR utilizes eye movements. At the beginning of a session, clients are invited to explore anything in their lives that feels unpleasant or disturbing. The client does not have to have a memory of what happened for the process to be effective. The focus is on the client’s felt sense in the moment as they describe the issue, and the presenting problem sometimes changes during the processing.

Brainspotting utilizes a simple set of steps called a “setup.” At the start of each session, people are asked to describe the issue they want to work on and identify their level of activation using a Subjective Unit of Disturbance (SUDS) scale of 0-10; EMDR uses this same scale. The word activation is used to describe the emotional and somatic distress associated with this situation.

The distress emerges as the client begins to describe their issue, tracking uncomfortable sensations in the body, painful emotions, disturbing thoughts, or images. The client is invited to listen to bilateral music using headphones playing at a low volume. Some clients prefer to put the music on at the start of the session and some wait until they have described their presenting problem.

Once the client rates their level of activation, if it is high enough (5 or greater) then the next step is finding a Brainspot, an eye position that corresponds to their current experience of the distressing issue. The therapist asks the client what they are noticing in their body and uses a pointer to assist the client in locating a Brainspot where that sensation feels the strongest. Locating the spot occurs by first tracking the client’s eyes horizontally and then vertically with the pointer. Finding the spot is an intuitive process and clients are often surprised by how quickly they locate it.

The spot functions like a portal, allowing access into the deep, subcortical part of the brain where trauma is stored. Once the brainspot is located, a period of focused mindfulness (processing) begins. During this time, the therapist and client are not talking much, this is an important distinction from EMDR where the therapist is checking in more frequently. In Brainspotting training, therapists learn the acronym WAIT, which means “Why Am I Talking”, because talking takes the client out of the subcortical brain and into their neocortex, the thinking, planning brain. 

The client focuses on the pointer and periodically checks in, reporting sensations, emotions, and images to the therapist. The therapist may offer brief words of encouragement or invite the client to quietly notice their internal experience, alternating with long periods of silence to allow the client to drop into the experience without getting distracted by having to respond to the therapist’s questions.

Clients track and name sensations in their bodies along with any emotions that arise. People sometimes notice a “slideshow” of images as their brain integrates disturbing material from the past that was activating the issue in the present. The client’s nervous system goes through cycles of regulation and dysregulation throughout the session.

The last ten minutes of the session are reserved for clients to discuss anything significant that arose during the processing (or not) and return to a more grounded state before returning to their day. The processing “work” continues between sessions and many clients notice increased access to sensations, emotions, and images along with vivid dreams (processing) for the next several days or longer.

The first time someone practiced Brainspotting on me was during a training and afterward I walked into Whole Foods feeling like everyone in the store loved me; it felt as if a layer of protection had been removed from my heart. 

In addition to processing distress, Brainspotting can be used for expansion work, where clients focus on increasing their strengths as opposed to reducing activation. Expansion work can be used to address performance issues, remove creative blocks, help athletes prepare for events, and a wide variety of other situations where people want to expand on an existing strength. I especially like using this setup with parents, we focus on their parenting strengths which reduces their pressure to be perfect parents.

This is a very brief description of Brainspotting, to learn more I recommend reading David Grand’s book “Brainspotting: The Revolutionary New Therapy for Rapid and Effective Change.” Dr Shapiro has written many books on EMDR and there is more information available on the EMDR Institute website www.emdr.com. I am also trained in Attachment Focused EMDR, and highly recommend Dr. Laurel Parnell’s training and books; you can learn more about her work at https:drlaurelparnell.com

I welcome your comments on this article, I realize I have only scratched the surface on this interesting subject!

The Gratitude Visit

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. We have many great cooks in the family, and everyone brings something; some of the recipes have been in our family for years. In addition to bringing the cranberry mold, I’m responsible for asking everyone to share what they are grateful for each year. My beloved aunt just turned 86 and I’ve spent at least thirty Thanksgivings with her since I moved to California in 1990; having her with us for another year is at the top of everyone’s list.

I like incorporating gratitude into my clinical work. I studied Positive Psychology which is the scientific study of the strengths and virtues that enable individuals to thrive. Positive Psychology was created by Dr. Martin Seligman, a psychologist who got tired of studying depression.

One of my favorite exercises from Dr. Seligman’s work is “The Gratitude Visit” and I teach this to my clients. First, I encourage them to take some time and think about a person who has had a major positive impact on their lives. Next, I ask them to visualize that person in as much detail as possible, picturing their face, and imagining a special time they had with that person. When the visualization is done, we talk about what the person means to them and discuss any thoughts or feelings that came up during the exercise. The next step is to write a letter to the person and read it to them in person. Some clients have read their letter to relatives who are no longer living.

Seligman’s research revealed that people who wrote gratitude letters reported a higher level of happiness during the time they participated in the study and again when they were contacted six months afterwards. Clients sometimes ask me if practicing gratitude will help them avoid feeling “negative” emotions. Our brains often gravitate toward what’s wrong and how to fix it, I explain that gratitude will help them experience a wider range of feelings, but it won’t prevent them from feeling unpleasant emotions. You can learn more about Positive Psychology at https://ppc.sas.upenn.edu/

What Are Some of the Differences Between EMDR and Brainspotting?

Clinicians often ask me about the differences between Brainspotting and EMDR. I hope you find this chart helpful and I welcome your input.

As an Approved Brainspotting Consultant and training assistant, I have the privilege of certifying other therapists in Brainspotting. Brainspotting training is offered through Dr. David Grand’s website www.brainspotting.com. Attendees are encouraged to begin using Brainspotting after they complete the first three-day training (Phase 1). Certification requires attending Phase 1 and Phase 2 trainings and six consulting sessions.

If you are interested in getting trained in EMDR, I did my initial training with the EMDR Institute https://www.emdr.com/ which teaches the Standard EMDR protocol. I completed the certification process over the following year. Next, I attended Laurel Parnell’s Attachment Focused EMDR training and became an approved Attachment Focused EMDR provider. Parnell’s training was more aligned with my theoretical orientation, and I found her streamlined protocol easier to use than the standard EMDR protocol. You can learn more about her trainings at https://drlaurelparnell.com/training/

Whichever path you choose, I recommend investing in consultation. These are both powerful, trauma modalities and you will benefit from building a strong foundation in your skills.

If you are trying to decide which training to take, do your homework. Read about each modality and see what resonates with your theoretical orientation; talk with your colleagues. If you are an over achiever like I am, you might decide you want to learn both. My website, mariagray.net offers links to EMDR and Brainspotting resources. The comparison chart on the last page may help you with your decision. I hope this article helps explain some of the difference between these two powerful, healing modalities. Feel free to reach out to me through my website with any feedback or questions you may have.

Exploring Our Financial Countertransference

One of my business practices is to examine my finances practically and psychologically. This consists of reviewing my financial progress on a weekly basis and exploring my countertransference in my own individual therapy. My early experiences with money shape the way I react in the present and examining those responses informs my clinical work. As therapists we are faced with the task of collecting our fees while simultaneously helping our clients explore their feelings and processing our own financial countertransference. This is not easy!

When I started my practice, my desire to help a potential client sometimes superseded my own monetary needs. I hadn’t yet learned how to tolerate my empathic responses during business transactions and sometimes the fees I set were too low; fortunately, my private practice supervisor helped me deepen my awareness of what was happening for me during these calls.

The choice to offer a reduced fee or lower a client’s existing fee can impact our clinical work. A therapist may feel resentful when their fee is too low and the client reports that they just returned from a two-week trip to the Bahamas. Or the client may end up feeling infantilized or indebted to the therapist which could be a reenactment of their relationship with a parent. These are two extremes, and a wide range of possibilities exist in between.

Unexamined financial countertransference can impact a therapist’s economic wellbeing and deprive the client of the opportunity to explore their uncomfortable feelings about money and experience the increased self-esteem that is a byproduct of investing in one’s own mental health. There are countless opportunities to discuss money with our clients including: late cancellations, fee increases, declined credit cards, and missed payments.

In group therapy we discuss late or missed payments with the entire group. I’ll say something like “Is anyone aware of not having paid for group this month?” Members have a chance to explore their reactions in the moment and the process sometimes evokes historical feelings or anger toward me. Sometimes members’ late payments could be an indirect expression of their desire to leave the group.

The discussion of payment in group offers members an opportunity to talk about a subject that our culture tries to politely avoid. We take the time together to explore what the client may be communicating with their late payment. Often this leads to a highly fruitful group discussion. The last time I raised my group fees one of my clients reacted so strongly that she later realized she needed to ask her boss for a long overdue raise.

In his book Difficult Topics in Group Therapy: My Journey from Shame to Courage, Jerome Gans, MD, advises therapists to prioritize the exploration of clinical material over managing financial transactions. He explains that so much can be gained by discussing the client’s feelings about money, especially if it’s done in the moment. Gans writes that managing the transaction first can shut down clinical discussion, whereas waiting to process the charge creates space for the client to express their feelings about the possibility of being charged.

In the example of a late cancellation for an individual session, I don’t charge my clients until we see each other at our next appointment. I’ll mention that I noticed they did not send their payment for last week; Then I wait. Sometimes this leads to an expression of anger toward a partner who failed to come home on time and care for their child while the client was in session. Other times we end up talking about their credit card debt, or feelings of resentment toward me for charging them for the missed appointment. If it’s relevant, I’ll ask my client how they are feeling about our work and our progress toward meeting their goals. In some cases, they simply forgot to pay me and there is nothing to explore.

Talking with our clients about money should be just like talking about any other topic we discuss in therapy. We must be willing to do our own money work so we can feel comfortable exploring financial issues with our clients.

References
Jerome S. Gans (1992) Money and Psychodynamic Group Psychotherapy, International Journal of Group Psychotherapy, 42:1, 133-152, DOI: 10.1080/00207284.1992.1173258

 

How Much is Your Business Costing You?

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In her book entitled Sacred Success: A Course in Financial Miracles, Barbara Stanny states “To think strategically, you must constantly link big picture to the costs of doing business, or to put it another way, connect your purpose statement to your profit/loss statement.”  I try to examine my overall business spending every month to make sure I am on the right track.

Business expenses can add up quickly and it’s important to review them regularly to avoid overspending. Early on I noticed I was buying too many psychology books on Amazon. Now I add books to my wish list before buying them and I ask myself if I really need to own this book and whether I have time to read it. I try to borrow books from the library whenever possible, the Los Angeles Public Library has a huge collection of psychology books.

When I started out, I struggled with the cost of investing in Brainspotting and EMDR training/certifications; my practice was still growing, and I was trying to keep my expenses low. I made the choice to invest in these trainings because they supported my specialization as a trauma therapist and over time this proved to be a wise choice.

I’m not recommending you restrict your spending, instead I am suggesting that you remain conscious and aware of what you spend. Be sure to leave room in your budget for consultation. I’m a member of a monthly peer consultation group and I’m in weekly individual consultation with a seasoned group therapist.

It’s just as important to be strategic with your time. For example-if you have a limited amount of time for administrative and marketing tasks, you might want to hire an assistant or a bookkeeper. That way you’ll have more time to attend networking events or develop promotional materials. This year I realized I was underspending on support for my business, and I decided to hire a bookkeeper.

This kind of strategic decision allows me to spend more time on business development and creative projects. If you are seeing clients five days a week that does not leave much time for developing your business. This year I invested in a meal service several nights a week so that I have more time to relax in the evenings. I also hired a dogwalker twice a week to make sure I have a long enough lunch break on my busiest days.

Some therapists gave up their office space during the pandemic, rent is a big expense, so you’ll want to weigh the pros and cons of subleasing vs. taking on a full-time office.

Now that we are approaching July and the halfway point of 2021, I like to review my income and expenses for the last six months (Profit and Loss report) and see where I might need to adjust. I met with my accountant to make sure I was on track for my quarterly tax payments. I will also examine the number of hours I have worked so far and make sure I am scheduling enough vacation time.

Sometimes solopreneurs like us can get lost in the “busyness” of our businesses and it’s important to regularly schedule time to take stock of how we are doing and what we want for ourselves in the future.